Silent Or Ignorance ???

In a beautiful relationship, conflict is as common as night and day, but fights in a relationship are an option to be chosen or not.When I'm in a relationship, I should be a good diplomat in approaching and handling conflicts. It can spell the difference between a flourishing relationship and one which is headed for the rocks.Different issues deserve different solutions. Try to know these types of issues and i will never be wrong in meeting them head-on.Some partner may be a ready-fire-aim sort of person who shoot first and ask questions later. This type of approach can actually cause a lot of friction between me and partner. In relationships there is a need to understand and be accepting of another person’s point of view.But as for me,You May Go If You Wanna Go,If You Wanna Stay Then You Better Behave!!! I understand that if there’s the high side of emotions, there’s also the downside of the extreme. Take note that emotions do pass, and whether im in the verge of tears or being enraged, and this is just what i need to do first.Make an extra effort to look after myself. Indulgence will only get me nowhere. Not only that i will feel bad right after, but it won’t give me any good result in the long term. Taking good care of myself like looking really good and feeling good about myself is far more rewarding than a single day of indulgence in chocolates and ice cream.I will heal all the more and heal faster if Im in company of good friends. Being alone at this point will only drive nasty thoughts in my head that I should stop thinking about. Having a life on the other hand, will keep me stable and sane.
I always keep reminding myself that even in my worst emotional state, I should never take myself for granted.Giving myself the importance what I deserve is just the basic step to regain my lost control. Once I get to that point, mending a relationship will just be easier. Just exactly how to do that requires a strong will power and a calm and calculating head. Healing a broken relationship takes a lot of commitment and hard work especially if the other doesn’t want it anymore. So sometimes the best treatment is being IGNORANCE!!!